I am re-publishing this post, as my computer was hacked into on the day this piece was posted, and readers could not access it.
When I moved to the community of Evanston, IL in 1983, many people jokingly referred to it as “the social experiment by the lake.” The first town directly north of Chicago, Evanston sits along the shores of Lake Michigan, serves as the home of Northwestern University, and prides itself on its “diversity.” The community has a rich history, a tremendous array of culture, and a committed population. It remains one of a handful of communities in the United States where the school system comprises a great range of both races/ethnicities and socioeconomic strata. People move here for this reason, as I did, when I bought this home when pregnant with my first child. I wanted my children to be in a community– in parks, in schools, in activities –with kids from a mix of backgrounds and experiences.
I sometimes choose to live in what I refer to as my “Evanston bubble,” meaning that – when it suits me – I surround myself with my like-minded friends and neighbors and can easily imagine (cough*pretend/delude myself*cough) that the whole world is Like! Us! That raising children who understand – because they have first-hand experience – differences of background, outlook, families, financial means, expectations about how they will be treated in the world – will give them a tremendous leg up as adults living in the wider world.
My bubble was burst, no shattered, last week when I attended a community meeting across the street from my home. Our alderwoman called the meeting in response to a neighborhood request, following two unrelated, very disturbing incidents that occurred within a couple days of one another: a stolen car that was torched at 3 am on my block (complete with an astonishing decibel-level explosion and pyrotechnics), and a long-time neighbor who was beaten quite badly at 7 pm in our local park, in front of his son. He had attempted to get two young teens who were playing basketball on the sole court to relinquish it, as he and others had been waiting a long time for their turn. The teens got pissed, made a phone call, and two others arrived on the scene to do the beat-down.
No excuse for this. None. Anyone would agree that this kind of thing requires swift and decisive response. What we did not agree on, as became abundantly clear at the community meeting, was exactly what that entailed.
The kids were black.
My neighbor who was beaten is white. As was every single person at the well-attended community meeting. Still, nothing could have prepared me for my neighbors asking, in total seriousness, why we could not just arrest anyone in an Evanston park who did reside in our town. Why couldn’t we have a cop posted who demanded ID from all park users? This broadened to the meeting constituency discussing the need to report any suspicious activity to the police at once (I, of course, agree), the first example cited being a neighbor who had observed a person of color driving down the street taking photographs. (Pause for stunned silence).
So. Here I am, with Treyvon Martin truly in my back yard. Here I am, wrestling with the nearly-overwhelming issue of how we go about the process of attempting meaningful, productive dialog about the difference between real danger, where there is genuine threat of serious harm, and perceived danger, where there is only what exists in our minds.